Let's face it, we all need it. Married, single, parent, child, and all other humans with different titles. Closure is the key to moving on. It gives a peace of mind, makes you settle, and it even may help one to gain trust again to start over.
When husbands give closure to something that they did or didn't do, it allows us wives to easily release the issue, problem and it gives us a better understanding why. When husbands open up and be honest about the situation, a light bulb goes off for us wives. Now we know what to do or what not to do in some cases. Either way it's best for spouses to let the each other know "why".
Such a relief to get an answer. It allows you to move on in confidence and be at peace with whatever happened. (Not all the time, but you wives get what I'm saying). Some things just can't be rectified.
Lovely wives, again, make sure you are honest. If not or if you can't at the time, then it might be best to keep quiet until the right time. Timing is everything and you have to know when.
Wives, continue to be on your best behavior through it all. Try and cater to your loving husband. They may not acknowledge it but they do appreciate it....
6 comments:
Just stumbled on ur blog. This write up is so true, love it.
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What if the guilty party is the husband and you know of something that occured some years ago and you "need" him to open up about it? How do you keep peace within yourself while trying to create a peaceful atmosphere? Will prayers really work and help at such a time? Even when he admits to the truth, will God help make it "all" right? Thank you.
What if the guilty party is the husband and you know of something that occured some years ago and you "need" him to open up about it? How do you keep peace within yourself while trying to create a peaceful atmosphere? Will prayers really work and help at such a time? Even when he admits to the truth, will God help make it "all" right? Thank you.
I need some closure regarding his lack of boundaries in my opinion with HIS female friend while we were dating. (He talked on the phone to her a lot, hung out solo, shared deeper issues) Now married, he exhibits strong boundaries but this female is still in our lives. He never meets her alone and never talks to her on the phone. We see her so seldom (twice or three times yearly), though, I feel like a jerk for even focusing on it. But, in her presence my old resentment comes back since she laughs too loudly at his every word and dresses provocatively every time she meets us, even at a casual lunch. Nothing that occurs is so obvious, though, so I would come off as paranoid. How can I find closure when I still get reminded several times a year? Can you address the topic of female friends again? I loved your other post from 09.
where have you been hiding?
please come back.
I"m here Anonymous, so sorry! I will get to your question asap. I too have gone through something similar so I understand. Yes prayer works but you have to know how to pray on the matter. I will get back w/you soon. Thank you very much!
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